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Instead, she found Steven and Sandy. We got to know each other very well with the help of our electronics and hand gestures. We were quite sure we were the right thing for each other, so I made another short trip later just to meet her parents and tell them we were serious. Another day visit in the fall to get to know each other even better. Then the following year the three-week visit to go to the US consulate to prove we were really a couple in order to get the marriage visa.
She has rearranged things in the living room and it looks quite welcoming and warm now. It is rather entertaining and they seem to like it. The office is a work in progress. We both do our share of cleaning. We decided on a plan of Sandy going to school for a couple of years to improve her English and prepare for some type of business or office job.
She earned all A grades in her English essay writing class. I think when she is better prepared to enter the job market she will land a more rewarding career. I am still at the airport parking facility. Certain things have fallen into place there that make for a much more comfortable living.
We take vacations, we travel, we eat well and we enjoy things. Next year we are planning for Paris. This job, while not glamorous, provides a lot of benefits for both of us. Medical, dental, optical, retirement and so on. And it seems to be a recession proof job, not subject to the sways of the economy.
But then it is not my life, it is just a job. I have some e-commerce websites I have created, and I have a website de business on the side. Some people have laughed at my methods, but I find that certain things were key for me. My searching was thorough and my vetting process took time. I did a lot of communication back and forth with many people and some seemed very nice while others were not in the running. With s you can find out quite rapidly the character and level of education of the writer and her intent.
But I was pragmatic and practical in my approach I thought.
When I finally connected with Sandy we communicated every night through s and web cam, and photo exchanges. You may laugh when I say communication because the movie shows us having a difficult time.
But it only became difficult when there were some serious differences or arguments. And while it appears in the film that we were always that way, truthfully that was not the case. We get along wonderfully well, we have great chemistry. Patience and understanding are very helpful, I feel. Empathy, always empathy. In short supply in many areas of society. Empathy is important. Try to keep in mind the shining, attractive qualities that drew you to each other.
When disagreements arise silence is better than yelling but communication should best be clear at these times, so think before speaking. Men are stupid. Women are crazy because men are stupid. Bending is better than breaking. Like an affliction rather than a preference. I had never thought about it before until 10 years after the disastrous end of my second marriage. I avoided any romance for that period. Then I saw my son find a beautiful Japanese girlfriend whom he later married. They seemed so happy and looked so nice together.
She was very polite and amiable but definitely not a subservient type. She was a powerful go-getter for sure, with strong opinions, and high standards, and a sense of purpose. I thought maybe this might be a new and better direction for my life as well. So I diligently searched for ones I might have chemistry with. Each nationality seems to have a personality of its own.
Early on in my search and communications I discovered that the Chinese style of communication was what I enjoyed most. It actually took me about a year to finally realize how I feel about it. I volunteered for this film without pay for the sake of Art. I gave it all the open honesty I could. So it was with some surprise that I found the emphasis on creepiness. Some reviews have been kind and generous.
Some reviews have been ridiculously wrong. Almost all that have had their own preconceived opinions about me and my intentions and motivations but have never even talked to me nor asked me a question. Sandy wound up not liking it much at all because it revealed too many personal things about herself.
So she felt very exposed. Often in the movie she would be venting off steam about a problem or situation the way people do and say things off the top of their he. It comes across as her desires verbatim or her secret plan. She felt disturbed about that. Debbie liked to catch me in these awkward moments. She would all often come to film me in the morning after I had worked until 1 AM…That produced a continual haggard appearance.
Many misconceptions fade away with this film. Many seem to remain. Many arise anew. While it does capture some truths, it does not show the entire truth. I was hoping to show that an everyday guy can find love and purpose from a connection to an everyday woman on the other side of the earth. That a solution to my invisibility and diminished choice in my own country is at hand with the modern tools of the internet.
That even a schlub such as me can find a soulmate with some diligence and desire with these tools. That might require a bit of surgery on my part, haha.
If things keep going swimmingly, we might think of adoption later. Nothing on the horizon, however. Where Are They Now? Photo provided by Steven How long have you and Sandy been together? Photo provided by Steven Has Sandy found work, or is she still in school? Steven, what is your current job? Photo provided by Steven What is the key to finding a good spouse?
Photo provided by Steven Patience and understanding are very helpful, I feel. Why or why not? Photo provided by Steven It actually took me about a year to finally realize how I feel about it. What was it like to see yourself on the big screen at a film festival? My first reaction to see seeing myself on the big screen was that I wish I had shaved.
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