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So we were familiar with the short-lived honeymoon period, and how long-term relationships bring their own sets of challenges. And inevitably, every long-term couple will go through rough patches in their relationship. The key to making it last? Remembering that, no matter what, you and your partner are on the same team. Below, eight experts share helpful expectations about long-term coupledom.
Being in a relationship doesn't prevent you from being attracted to other people. In fact, having a crush while in a relationship is pretty common. However, being aware of the temptation allows you to keep your guard up and fight it. There are practical ways to combat this issue, says Lasson, who suggests experimenting with new couple outings, adventures, and date nights. The dating cycle practically begets drama and next-day gossip sessions.
While relationships can free you from those highs and lows, they can sometimes feel boring by comparison. Those who truly love each other, however, will work to find joy and happiness every day. But be careful not to rely solely on your partner for excitement. No one can fill that role for you. But vulnerability can be scary — which is why her work feels revolutionary — because it requires sharing intimate, embarrassing, or personal stories with others.
According to Barbara Wintera psychologist and sexologist, vulnerability in a relationship is a road to total acceptance. It's important for each person in a long-term relationship to have some independence from their partner. And so, when a fresh argument arises, it sits upon the unresolved pain and hurt.
Couples that stay together for the long term have the ability to fully resolve, and then permanently put away, a dispute. This allows a couple to move forward daily with a fresh slate. Typically, at the beginning of a relationship, desire and passion are quite high. The old adage that couples should never go to bed angry? Not all experts agree. You tend to have a clearer mind when you wake up, and in the calm of the morning, the issue may no longer feel like a big deal.
You can work through it more rationally. Maybe they hog the blankets at night. Be warned: These things you might find endearing on Day 1 could sour overtime.
Experts agree it's OK to be annoyed from time to time. Just try not to dwell on day-to-day irritations. In fact, Lasson recommends choosing positivity five times more often than negativity, while also leaving room for occasional slip ups.
Adds Burns, "Some long-term couples have an incredible ability to focus on the good. You can begin to do this with a daily gratitude practice in which you express appreciation for at least one thoughtful thing your partner did that day. When you're in a long-term relationship, arguing is inevitable. It doesn't matter whether it's a tiny squabble over the dishes or a serious disagreement. The pursuer tends to yell, cry, or engage in other negative behaviors for attention.
It shows that at your grossest or sexiest, your partner loves you all the same. To each their own. By Laken Howard and Haley Swanson. Updated: July 19, Originally Published: Aug. Willie B.Im just looking for long term
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