Ladies giving oral sex

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If you don't know me, let me give you a brief introduction: My name is Zara Barrie, and I'm a full-blast, lady-loving lesbian. I love girls as much as you do. It's recently come to my attention that some of you may be a little intimidated about going down on a woman Hey, I get it. The first time I ever went down on a girl sophomore year of high school, I think? I was scared out of my mind. I mean, the vagina is like this mystical holy grail that unlocks the secrets to the ever-expansive universe.

Ladies giving oral sex

But you know what I've learned after a decade of giving — and receiving — oral sex to and from women? It's actually really not that hard to know how to give a girl head and get her off. It's not as easy as getting men off, but as long as you follow some basic guidelines, it's fun and super addictive. Besides, who understands a woman better than a lesbian? We lesbians might as well have honorary doctorates in the art of le girl.

With that, I proudly present to you Zara's simple five-step guide to going down on women. You're welcome. Hear me when I say this: Step one is the key to not only being better at oral sex, but the key to a less stressful life. Despite what centuries of history tried to convince society, vaginas are glorious places.

A vagina is the expensive, five-star hotel in a world of seedy motels. Vaginas are the reasons buildings are built and the world rotates. Also, it makes us hot to make a girl feel hot, right? And nothing can make her scream with passion like oral. I used to be one of those girls who was like "No, it's OK. I just thought she didn't like going down on me. And girls cannot, I repeat, cannot, come when they're feeling self-conscious. This is when fake orgasms come into play. And don't think you're the exception to the rule. No one is. Women fake orgasms all the time.

Girls appreciate being told they're hot, sexy and turning you on. I know, I know. We should already know. But here is the stone cold truth: It's not enough for you to be down there. We have to know you want to be down there, you like it down there and that we're gorgeous creatures with magical vaginas. Susan Edelman told Bustle. The more aware we become of these toxic societal pressures, the more we can feel empowered to free ourselves from their spells.

Before you dare to go down, make sure you make us feel super sexy. Validate us. It's easy. And women need to feel relaxed in order to enjoy oral sex. Sometimes I will be so sexually aroused by a woman that I just want to dive in and eat her out. I can be so turned on that I just want to skip the foreplay and get right into it. But then, I take a deep breath and ask myself this pivotal question: Do you like it when someone just goes right down there with a reckless abandon, Zara?

Ladies giving oral sex

No, you don't. People who own penises generally don't mind if someone goes straight in for the blow job note: I used to sleep with them, tooalthough teasing has its own merits for them, too. Long story short, though, it usually doesn't matter if the entire affair lasts all of five minutes. They just want to come. Women and people with vaginas are a far more complicated story. In fact, women often require 20 minutes of foreplay to become completely aroused, as to Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasureexplained to Bustle.

You need to warm their bodies up. Think of me like a cold piece of bread you pulled straight from the fridge; you have to stick me in the toaster and warm me up so I'm all golden and crispy before you eat me. Otherwise the experience just isn't as pleasant, right? Cold toast is gross.

Cold box is worse. Kiss our entire bodies up and down, head to toe, but don't touch the clit yet. Also, at this stage, feel free to throw in the occasional moan and "I want you so bad.

Ladies giving oral sex

Use your instincts. Everyone has instincts, I promise. Trust them. The trick to going down on a girl is to tease her. You don't want to venture down under until she's wet and begging for it out of anticipation. Girls love anything they have to have a little patience for. If it comes easy and quickly, it can be far less pleasurable. Start off with just a little hand play. Slowly touch the top of her with your hands lightly over her underwear.

Ladies giving oral sex

Take her underwear off. Go back up to the top and kiss her on the mouth again, and then kiss her entire body, slowly and sensually. Then before you even get to her clit, kiss her inner thighs and pelvic area. Go slowly. Get into it. Keep teasing. You can tell how excited a girl is by putting your finger down there. Is she wet? She should be dripping by now — and if she isn't, keep teasing. And before you go in for the kill she better be breathing heavily and in a full-body tremblebreathe a little hot air right on the clit.

It's a little trick of the trade I learned in my years of hands-on lesbian oral. Going down on a woman is not scary; it's actually a wonderful experience. Look at the vagina. This is very important: You must not be afraid to look at it.

Ladies giving oral sex

If you're afraid to look at a woman's vagina, dead on, you have no business being down there. A super light, teasing touch is usually a great way to start. Start by slowly using your tongue. Don't go at it like it's a slice of teeming hot pizza you would pick up at the bar at 4 a. Circular motions are nice. Play around, and make sure to ask what feels good. You made the last person have earth-shattering, mind-blowing orgasms, so this one should be no problem.

And neither would I. No two women are the same. All women like different things. Some women like it soft and gentle; other women like it hot and fast. Some like both and are total wild cards depending on the day. You have to listen to her. Don't just recklessly start playing around with something because someone else liked it.

We all have different sensitivity levels and trigger spots. If she's breathing heavily and making sounds, it's likely good.

Ladies giving oral sex

Let her body and voice be your tour guide. Your partner can definitely be saying plenty without speaking a word through body language alone. Pay attention to their reactions and what they enjoy. If they move their body a bit to the left or any other directionkeep your mouth where it is, they might be trying to get you to shift a bit.

Ladies giving oral sex

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